One of the reasons why this condition is often misunderstood is a lack of relevant information. Most people connect sexual dysfunction with erectile dysfunction and do not realize that there are many variants of the condition. The following covers the main types of sexual dysfunction and should assist with understanding what the problem is.
It is not uncommon for either party of a partnership not to be in the mood for sex. It can often be the last thing on your mind when you are busy juggling a demanding household with an equally demanding job. Whilst quality time with your loved one should be an essential part of life it is almost always the first casualty of hectic lifestyles. However, when this has become the case for a lengthy period of time and it is a lack of interest as opposed to a lack of time then there is a desire problem. There are”
As you age, the hormones in your body change, and you will end up with decreased libido. Equally when a couple has been together for long time sex can become routine and the desire to have intercourse can diminish.
An arousal disorder is when the interest and desire to have sex is there. Unfortunately, every time you try it is impossible to become aroused. Whilst the desire in your heart is present the sexual trigger is broken. This can happen after a painful sexual experience or an incident of erectile dysfunction. The fear of the problem or pain happening again is enough to stop you from becoming aroused. You may be able to engage in normal sexual relations but are unable to derive any excitement or pleasure in the act. In essence, you may wish to have sex but gain no pleasure from doing so. The issue here can be rooted in a variety of medical conditions or can stem from an emotional issue.
This is the failure of a man to either obtain or maintain an erection. This makes the act of sex impossible and “can be very embarrassing for both sides of the partnership. It can often be”
mistakenly seen as a scarcity of attraction when it’s not the case and maybe incredibly frustrating.
Obviously one incident is not an indication of having this condition – there are many reasons why it is possible not to become aroused. Excessive consumption of alcohol or various illnesses can cause this to become a temporary problem. Longer-term issues may stem from emotional or physical injuries and will require further investigation to enable a diagnosis and treatment.
Ejaculating extremely quickly after the commencement of either sex or sexual foreplay suggests the presence of this type of sexual dysfunction. There is no specific time that sex should last but if it lasts less than two minutes it is considered to be premature. This can cause immense issues for a couple who are both left dissatisfied. One for lack of fulfillment and the other for a lack of being able to fulfill their partner’s needs. This can happen when you are overstimulated – such as your first sexual experience or when acting out a particular fantasy. If this continues or develops in other circumstances it may, again, be an emotional problem. Equally, it may be a medical issue concerning “nerve or blood vessel damage. “Orgasm difficulties
Men and women should both climax and enjoy orgasms when engaging in sexual activities. If you find that you are unable to climax in seven out of ten attempts then you have orgasm difficulties and need to look at ways to overcome the issue. Some women resign themselves to the fact that they do not orgasm when this should not be the case. The act of having sex is a two-way adventure and if the current set up is not working then it needs to be investigated. It might be possible to change the position or amount of foreplay or it could be as simple as engaging in masturbation to see what works and what has no effect. Remember everyone has different stimuli! It is less common for a man to struggle to have an orgasm but it does happen. Often this is down to a technical issue and communication with a loving partner will assist in resolving this.
Pain when having sex
It is possible to experience pain when having normal sexual relations. This can happen to men or women and will be likely to make them wary of future sexual encounters.
“there is a problem which needs addressing. A lack of lubrication is a common cause and may be due to being insufficiently aroused. There are a variety of other potential medical issues that can affect men or women, including urinary tract infections and it is advisable to consult a doctor.